Valentine’s Day is often seen as a holiday for couples, but who says it can’t be about self-love, too? Whether you’re single by choice, recently out of a relationship, or just not in the mood for romance, February 14th can still be a day worth celebrating—on your terms.
If you’re feeling like skipping the holiday altogether, that’s totally fine. But if you’d rather make the most of it and treat yourself, here are 15 ways to enjoy Valentine’s Day solo.
- Treat Yourself to a Self-Care Night
Run a hot bath, grab a glass of wine (or your favorite drink), and queue up a movie or show you love. Whether it’s a relaxing bath, meditation, yoga, or a solo dance party in your living room, do whatever makes you feel good.
- Host a Galentine’s Day Get-Together
February 13th is all about “ladies celebrating ladies,” thanks to Parks and Recreation’s Leslie Knope. Invite your best friends over for brunch, cocktails, or a cozy night in, and remind each other why friendship is just as important as romance.
- Make a Vision Board
Manifest your dream life! Cut out pictures from magazines, create a digital board on Canva, or jot down your goals. Think about your career, finances, travel dreams, or even what you want in a future partner. Keep your board somewhere visible to stay inspired.
- Buy Yourself Flowers
As Miley Cyrus put it, “I can buy myself flowers.” You don’t need anyone else to brighten your day—pick up a bouquet of your favorites as a reminder that you deserve love and thoughtful gestures.
- Take a Walk in Nature
Fresh air and movement can boost your mood, lower stress, and improve focus. Even if it’s chilly, bundle up and take a walk through a local park with a coffee or hot cocoa in hand.
- Pamper Yourself
Book a manicure, pedicure, facial, or massage—whatever makes you feel refreshed and confident. If salons aren’t your thing, a DIY spa night at home works just as well.
- Buy Yourself a Gift
Whether it’s a book, a video game, a handbag, or just a fancy coffee, treating yourself to something special can make the day feel more celebratory.
- Have a Cozy Movie or Book Night
Binge-watch a series, rewatch your favorite rom-com, or curl up with a good book. Bonus points for snacks!
- Journal Your Thoughts & Goals
Use Valentine’s Day as a time for reflection. Write about your relationships (past, present, or future), personal goals, or just whatever’s on your mind. It’s a great way to gain clarity and set intentions for the future.
- Cook Yourself a Fancy Meal
Who says you need a date for a gourmet dinner? Try a new recipe, pour yourself a drink, and enjoy a homemade feast.
- Have a Sexy Solo Night
Light some candles, put on your favorite lingerie (or whatever makes you feel confident), and take the time to focus on self-pleasure. After all, Valentine’s Day is about love—including self-love!
- Take a Spontaneous Trip
Book a weekend getaway or a staycation at a nice hotel. Traveling solo can be empowering and refreshing, whether it’s a beach escape or just exploring a new city.
- Dine Out Solo
Taking yourself out to dinner might feel intimidating, but it can also be a great confidence boost. Bring a book, sit at the bar, and order exactly what you want—no compromises necessary.
- Call a Friend or Family Member
Valentine’s Day is about love in all forms, so why not reach out to someone who means a lot to you? A quick call or FaceTime chat can remind you of the love that’s already in your life.
- Volunteer & Give Back
Sometimes the best way to feel fulfilled is to help others. Whether it’s at an animal shelter, food pantry, or community organization, giving your time to a good cause can be a rewarding way to spend the day.
Spending Valentine’s Day Alone Can Be a Gift
Being single on Valentine’s Day isn’t a bad thing—it’s a chance to celebrate you. No compromises, no pressure, just a day spent doing exactly what makes you happy. So lean into it and enjoy every moment!
