When Debbi met Steve in 2011, she believed he was her soulmate. But her deep jealousy, fueled by Othello Syndrome—a disorder that causes irrational fears of cheating—soon took control. She even asks Steve to take lie detector tests after simple errands.

Her past trauma made her constantly watch over him, from limiting his TV time to checking his devices and questioning his reactions to ads. Though extreme, Debbi says these habits bring her some peace.

Steve admits the tests aren’t always clear but stays devoted, believing she’s worth it. Despite criticism, they continue to support each other.

Now, Debbi is working on healing—planning surgery to boost her confidence and using gaming to help manage her jealousy and focus her energy.